I think a brief history of every war between us would be this:

Arwen memorial set: sol and stones blindside elders and sof and lose
Sol and elders vs server: sol and elders beat laf stones and others
Arranged war fail: elders ends up in war with laf, asks sol to call off war, sol refuses, elders calls in allies to make it fun
Sol fs following set
Elders fs sol (no pact)
Sol fs
Tie/rage/sol arranged war works fine
Sol fs
Sol fs
Sol break pact fs
Sol fs